Most of us love a fun celebration especially when there are good friends, good food and fun times. This July 4th, remember to keep it fun and be moderate and smart with your celebration.
Things to remember:
1. Drink responsibly. There’s nothing like alcohol to throw things into a tail-spin. Don’t over due a good thing or you risk things going bad fast. Don’t drink and drive, be moderate with the amount you drink and don’t go out planning to get wasted.
2. Keep things light. Celebrations are not the time to have a serious conversation or to talk about serious upsets. Give yourself the day/night to relax, enjoy and have fun. You can always talk about serious issues the next day.
3. Avoid working. Be with your family and friends fully. Don’t constantly look at your phone, read your e-mails or check out your computer. Give yourself and your family a green light to just enjoy—guilt free.
4. Be positive. Refuse to make fun of other people or talk about those distant cousins, strange neighbors or messed up friends. Too many family fights occur after a mean-spirited statement or gossip. Take the high road and enjoy them--don’t judge them.
5. Create a positive memory. Families are so often so busy that they have few opportunities to spend down time together. Take the holiday weekend to make the time. Give your children the gift of your time and attention. Run, play and laugh with them. Let this holiday be a great memory for them…and you. You and your family deserve it.
The 4th of July is a great time for family barbeques, parties, and gatherings. Make this year’s celebration be one full of fun not drama. Keep things light; laugh and enjoy one another and the holiday.
Challenge: Have fun this 4th of July, be safe and create a great memory!